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NO HAIRCUT TODAY!

壮妈汀妈点评：

你家的小孩怕不怕剃头？我家有个小孩子就怕:(

当年汀汀小时候，除了第一次剃胎毛是请人剃的，之后都是我亲自操刀，一直也没哭过。可到了弟宝，哭闹得我几乎无法下手:(

就在我对弟宝越来越长的头发以及越来越强硬的反抗态度束手无策时，我看到了这本书《NO HAIRCUT TODAY!》，如抓到救命稻草一样，赶紧翻看希望能从书中的妈妈那里学到妙招。可是可是，结果是，书里的妈妈也郁闷之极，最后跟宝宝抱在一起，然后安慰自己“也许。。。明天吧。”

看起来这本书没有给出解决问题的办法嘛。。。但是，我还是特别喜欢，尤其当Dominic看到妈妈难过时流露出的紧张、同情，小手摸着妈妈的脸安慰妈妈，乖巧地趴在妈妈的肩头。。。象极了小时候的汀汀和现在20个月大的弟宝！而妈妈没有大发脾气，没有哄骗孩子，她收起烦躁的心情，搂紧孩子告诉他“我爱你”。。。令人感动。

一本看似“无用”的书，但它告诉了我们一个对待孩子成长的基本原则，就是当孩子面对恐惧、焦虑、难过时，请用温暖的怀抱接纳孩子，给他一个心灵的堡垒，给他一个避风的港湾，孩子的内心会逐渐强大起来，强大到他自己终会战胜那些困扰。

喜欢这本书。但是弟宝的头发还是得自己琢磨办法解决！于是，一手紧紧搂抱着弟宝，一手拿电动推子迅速操作，哭吧，哭，也是在妈妈的怀里哭啊！

　

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This is Dominic's hair.
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“Dominic's hair is LONG in some spots and SHORT in other spots.

Some parts are curly. Other parts are STRAIGHT. 
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He does not like to have his HAIR CUT.
Will he have it cut in a car chair?  NO!
How about in an airplane chair? NO!
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His mom loves to cut people's hair.
She cuts their hair and curls their hair. They look great.  
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When Dominic sees SCISSORS he screams!
If anyone tries to hold his head 
no matter how gently 
he screams!
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His mother gets VERY UPSET.
"MOMMY! Are you mad at me?" he asks.

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"I'm not mad at you, " she whispers. "I love you."
"I love you too." he says.

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Her hair is cut just right. His hair isn't cut at all. Their faces touch. Their hair gets all MIXED UP!
NO HAIRCUT TODAY!
Their eyes sparkle and they laugh. Maybe ...
tomorrow.